We are unhappy married, and unmarried we are unhappy. We are unhappy when alone, and unhappy in society: we are like hedge-hogs clustering together for warmth, uncomfortable when too closely packed, and yet miserable when kept apart. It is all very funny...

                                                           --Schopenhauer

Life is evil because pain is its basic stimulus and reality, and pleasure is merely a negative cessation of pain. Aristotle was right: the wise man seeks not pleasure, but freedom from care and pain.

                                                           --Schopenhauer

Since love is a deception practiced by nature, marriage is the attrition of love, and must be disillusioning. Only a philosopher can be happy in marriage, and philosophers do not marry.

                                                           --Schopenhauer

Galatian 5
5:16 我说，你们当顺着圣灵而行，就不放纵肉体的情欲了。
5:17 因为情欲和圣灵相争，圣灵和情欲相争。这两个是彼此相敌，使你们不能作所愿意作的。
5:18 但你们若被圣灵引导，就不在律法以下。
5:19 情欲的事，都是显而易见的。就如奸淫，污秽，邪荡，
5:20 拜偶像，邪术，仇恨，争竞，忌恨，恼怒，结党，纷争，异端，
5:21 嫉妒，醉酒，荒宴等类，我从前告诉你们，现在又告诉你们，行这样事的人，必不能承受神的国。
5:22 圣灵所结的果子，就是仁爱，喜乐，和平，忍耐，恩慈，良善，信实，
5:23 温柔，节制。这样的事，没有律法禁止。
5:24 凡属基督耶稣的人，是已经把肉体，连肉体的邪情私欲，同钉在十字架上了。
5:25 我们若是靠圣灵得生，就当靠圣灵行事

I've been thinking, are you sent by Angels to help me, our are you sent by the demons to test me.
I don't have an answer.
I only have some 'code of conduct'.